We didn't always think we would.  In fact, for a time, we were very much against homeschooling.  What about socialization?  What good does it do to pull all the Christians out of the schools?  Aren't you sheltering your children?  What about college?

So I went to the library and checked out every book on homeschooling to prove to myself that it was a terrible idea.  I didn't expect to learn about so many benefits that I had never considered before!  I still didn't think it was for me, but I came away with a new respect for homeschooling (and homeschoolers!) that I never had before.

Matt and I had discussion after discussion and we saw the pros and cons of both homeschooling and public schooling, but we still couldn't make up our minds.  We committed to praying about it and trusted that the Lord would make it clear by giving us a peace about one or the other.

One day while in prayer, the Lord made it very clear that He wanted me to homeschool.  It's hard to explain, but He just kept pressing it upon my heart.  I remember fighting it because I saw it as such a sacrifice on my part.  My priorities were majorly out of order at that time in my life, and I truthfully just wanted to pursue my own interests after the kids went back to school.  I basically surrendered and just asked God to change my heart if this is what He wanted me to do.

So here I am!  I'm about to officially start homeschooling in January and God has just recently answered my prayer and finally changed my heart.  I finally feel excited to begin serving my family and children in this way.

Part of the reason why I'm starting this blog is for accountability and to connect with other Moms for support and encouragement.  I'd love to hear your stories about why you homeschool (or why you don't) in the comment section below.  The Lord clearly leads some families to be home, and others to be a light in the schools.  I just love that God cares about these little details and I love hearing about how the Lord leads and guides others.

5 comments:

Edie says:
at: December 1, 2010 at 10:40 PM said...

I sooo understand your story. I didn't want to homeschool my dd either when God called me to it five years ago. That is usually confirmation to me that it is God- when I have a peace and it is NOT what my flesh would want to do. Homeschool along with the usual motherhood has required me to get on my knees more and crucify my flesh more, probably exactly what God had in mind ;)

Kim Evans
at: March 8, 2011 at 5:55 AM said...

Catherine,
I found your blog through a friend's FB post. I just want to say "Thank You" for sharing your heart and your experiences with us. It has been so encouraging to read your blog.
I was counting down the days until my oldest (4 yrs old at the time) would be going to school. In fact, we moved into a certain school district so they could go to the school of my choice. After a few short months, God revealed HIS plan. He was calling us to sell the house, although we had just unpacked all our boxes. When we were getting the house prepared to go on the market, He audiable spoke to me while I was standing on our front porch. He said "consider homeschooling." I looked around like, "Did anyone else hear that?!?" At that point, I began reading everything I could about homeschooling. God led me to several different families who were homeschooling. Each time, it was more affirmation that it was His will for me to homeschool my children. I remember specifically one day I was reading "Marketing of Evil" and I began to pray, "God, please confirm in my heart homeschooling is what you want me to do." As I turned the next pages of the book, the words jumped off the page "the only way to do this is to homeschool your children." WOW!! I began to cry tears of thankfulness that our God is so faithful to hear and answer our prayers! He cares about EVERY detail of our lives. I praise you LORD!

I am planning to start homeschooling my oldest in May, right after he finishes pre-school at out church. Right now, I am praying for God to give me clarity and discernment about what cirriculum to use. I read Cathy Duffy's book and picked out what she said would work for his learning style. However, it is going to cost me close to $800 for it all! Still just praying and searching for God to guide and direct our path in this journey. Thank you again Catherine for sharing your life with us.

Grace,
Kim

Homeschooling Momtographer says:
at: March 8, 2011 at 7:58 PM said...

Kim,
Thank you for sharing your heart with me too! I loved reading about how God so clearly led you to consider homeschooling! What an amazing story.

Choosing a curriculum can be an overwhelming process, but the Lord will be faithful to guide you in this area as well. To be completely honest, that is a lot of money for a Kindergarten program. :) Have you looked into Heart of Dakota or My Father's World at all? They're both a fraction of that cost and wonderful programs.

Here is a helpful blog post by Rebecca from Leading Little Hearts Home. She talks about Peace and Growth in Kindergarten and she mentions some cost effective options too: http://growingupgodskids.blogspot.com/2009/03/peace-and-growth-in-kindergarten.html

Thanks for stopping by! Do let me know what you decide to do.

~Catherine :)

Theophanie says:
at: August 8, 2011 at 8:08 AM said...

I am the opposite! I never thought I would want to, like you. But, I did it and loved it and when my baby was seriously ill, I put my older on e in a Montessori school so she could have some fun & interaction and she has been SO much happier there. Of course, since she is doing well and prefers it, I have continued her enrollment. I did love homeschooling, though! I am glad that you guys get to do it. :)
I found you on Mommy-Mondays and I am glad you did. Your stomach bug post was touching.

Kate says:
at: January 30, 2012 at 11:33 AM said...

Just came across your blog on blog lovin - it's amazing! We have a little girl who we'd like to homeschool eventually {she's only 12 months now} and it's so nice to find blogs like this for encouragement and ideas. Also your photography is amazing! I can't wait to check out more of your posts :)